Deciding if the new guy in your life – who has set your heart on fire and puts your head in the clouds every time he calls – is truly your soulmate and not just a lusty indulgence, can be extraordinarily difficult to determin.
Often in the first throes of finding love, we feel overcome by the excitement that comes from being with someone new.
Finding love, separating love and lust in the early days is near impossible . More time with each other is required to really answer this question.
So to help our readers who want to find a soulmate, we’re offering some tips for you to keep in mind throughout your journey.
1. You have defined this person in your mind before you have met him.
2. Deep down, you know he’s the guy. There are no doubts.
3. You’re not just passionate lovers, you’re also friends. You both have to feel a powerful emotional and physical attraction for each other. For a real soul mate relationship to occur, one cannot exist without the other.
4. As a partner in this relationship, you’re still the same old you. If you alter the essential core of who you are just to please the man you think is your soulmate, think again: he’s not the right guy for you. If you have had to make huge sacrifices or compromises to your lifestyle, your goals and your dreams, then you are not with your soulmate. Simple as that.
5. He completely understands and supports those things in life that are the most meaningful to you, particularly your innermost wishes and dreams.
6. Both of you are equally and deeply devoted to each other and your relationship, and each of you want the other’s dreams to come true.
7. You trust this man and you are both loyal to one another.
8. It’s better to be with him than without him.
9. Your love for this man is your greatest source of happiness.
10. The thought of not being with him for any extended amount of time is unimaginable.
11. Your gut feeling is overwhelmingly positive where this man is concerned. You have eyes only for this man. If you keep thinking about another men, then this guy is not your soulmate. If you have a feeling that you are ‘settling’, then you are generally right. You are. Don’t!
12. You make magic together as a team. He supports your goals and dreams as much as you do his.
13. Your soul journeys seem to complement each other
14. You share the same values and ideals in life, but respect your differences.
15. You want to tell each other everything and have nothing to hide from each other.
16. All of your questions about this man have been satisfactorily answered. You truly believe that you know and understand who he really is.
17. He makes you feel alive. You feel a sense of calm and confidence around him. You don’t constantly worry that he’s going to leave you and go after someone else. When he goes out, you do not think that he is looking for anyone else. You do not feel threatened by other women.
18. No sense of urgency permeates your relationship: he’s yours, whether or not you sleep with him or do anything else you think is required to keep him close.
19. He makes you feel fully energized and alive.
20. He inspires you and makes you want to be a better person.
21. The two of you are a force to be reckoned with. As a team, you feel you can achieve anything. You feel that you can do anything together.
22. You do not need him to validate you or make you feel complete.
23. Time is an important factor in determining whether this person is your soulmate. With time, you will have the benefit of shared experience. We believe that three to six months is a good indication to see whether this man is your soulmate. Seeing the way he reacts in a number of different situations is the best soulmate determiner.
Finding love is a magical journey that should happen to everyone. If your deepest desire is to live a fulfilling, joyful life, use these suggestions to search and find your soul mate.
